We arrived 2 Sundays ago and set up shop for a week at a Marriott Suites hotel. I could seriously get used to someone coming in and cleaning, making my bed and providing fresh towels daily. Even though we had a kitchen I did not cook while we were there.

The children started school on a Thursday. Sweetheart loved the first day of school. I picked her up and she was bubbly and had new BFF's and a boys who liked her! Dash loved his first day of school. When he got into the car he beamed, "They have gym EVERYDAY!, I love this school". Beauty got into the car and was quiet. I was so excited to hear how her first day went, because this morning she was so excited to go! Sadly, it didn't go so well and before she could utter a word she was in tears. At that moment, my heart sank and I was fighting back tears as well. Being ever so encouraging and trying to understand I told her tomorrow is another day. The kids are just trying to figure you out and where you fit in and where they fit in. She said they were nice but uninviting. She resolved with a good attitude and wouldn't let it get her down but would try even harder.

Friday, Second day of school. Same as the first. Only Beauty entered the car and climbed to the far bench and sobbed. I stopped the car and got out and held her and could feel her chest heave and my shoulder soak from the tears that fell from her mascara ran eyes. I ached like I have never ached before. Mr. Incredible and I had prayed like we had never before that this transition would be easy for her. In between sobs, she cried out, " WE prayed for the right ward not the right school". I told her, "we prayed that everything would be right, give it time. It has only been two days." As she wiped her tears away and regained her composure she climbed back into the car and sat with her thoughts.
I quickly texted Mr. I and said, text the Bishop we need the YW ASAP! tears flowing hard. I don't understand this pain because my parents still live in the same house I grew up in. Within minutes someone was texting Beauty telling her she understood and had recently moved 8 months ago. It definitely helped.
Monday came and Beauty went to seminary! She loves it and loves the teacher! Mr. Incredible brought her to school and she couldn't open the door. She turned to him with eyes filled with tears and he drove off with both of them in the car. He said, they sat and talked for a bit and drove around the circle once again and he watched his little girl, approach another day of uncertainty and he was the one the drove off with tears in his eyes. She rode the bus home this time and her spirits were a bit happier and she said she had gotten a few girls telephone numbers! "Thank you, Lord!"
We also unloaded that big beast of a trailer and are into our home! I never want to move again and if I do, we are paying for movers! I don't care how much we save!
TUESDAY TUESDAY TUESDAY ohhhh BLESSED TUESDAY! Everyone off to school and everyone arrived home HAPPY! Beauty walked through the doors and she was singing! WHAT? I was afraid to look, it really was, She was singing and happy and bubbly! Instant prayers of gratitude going up. So, see all Beauty needed was 4 days less than a week and life was good again. Because she had such a rocky start I think Mr. Incredible and I spent a small fortune outfitting her. If she was conniving she could have road that gravy train a bit longer because we would have bought her dang near the world! SOooooo glad, she isn't conniving! (that would be me, I'm just sayin...)
My goal was to have the entire house unpacked and lived in by Sunday. I had to fly back to NC on Wednesday and that took the entire day. On Sunday we had our first dinner party. We had our Bishop's family of 6 over! They are a pretty neat family. I really like the two of them! It went over well and I was decorated in every area except for the bathrooms! Yeah, I rock! I know!! I love how the kitchen functions! I still hate that it isn't a gas stove. The children will finish out the rest of the week and then it will be spring break and WARRIOR will be home! The entire house is ecstatic!
NEXT BLOG will be SPRING BREAK!

15 comments:
Glad things are looking up for Beauty. It always takes time. But you guys are great! Who couldn't love you all?
OH my goodness, this brought back such vivid memories. Tiff was a Jr. and Jece a sophmore and they cried and I cried! The plus side for us was they went in together and the counselor saw our tears and put them in lunch together! Tiff had the hardest time and it took a little while. Still like you said it was the right move and that was what got us through the transition.
Oh my! I can so relate to this! When we moved to AZ 5 years ago, daughter was a Sophomore and son #2 was in 5th grade. It was a hard gut wrenching experience for both of them.n Lots and lots of tears! It took a while for my kids to adjust, but then they did just fine.
Can you come unpack and decorate my house? We moved back to UT about 8 months ago. I think I need your help! :)
~Valerie
ps we know each other from the HFPE group! I hope you remember me, lol!
Moving is really hard on teenagers. I'm glad it didn't take beauty too long to come around. Thank goodness for the YW!
I'm like you when I move. I am a mad woman until everything is unpacked and put away. Everything put away, cleaned and decorated in one week or less. That's always my goal.
My heart goes out to Beauty but I am glad she was able to turn it around quickly. I moved 16 times growing up and changed schools alot - it is a very hard thing! I wasn't a member of the church then - it sure would make a difference - yayy for YW, Yayyy for Seminary!!!
Congrats on getting unpacked and having a dinner party even - Wow you rock woman!!! Congratulations!
Oh the power of prayer!! I am so glad he answered your prayers! Moving is always a little complicated when you have teenagers...but they will adjust and being members of a ward will help! Good idea on inviting people over for parties! We do that every time and it does help!
Awww..my heart just broke for Beauty reading this, but it sounds like she had a good day, finally. I can imagine how hard that transition is at that age.
I can't wait to see more pictures of your house!
I'm so glad to hear that things are going better! And can't WAIT to see pics!
Oh I am SO glad to hear that Beauty is happier. It IS hardest for teenagers to move. Kids are kids, but once you are in high school, the whole dynamic changes.
When I first read how miserable she was, I thought, doesn't anybody from church go too, and I am SO glad the YW stepped up and hope she has found church friends too! Has she?
And it must be so exciting to have Warrior see this new home and stuff? How does he feel about it all?
Your post had ME on a roller coaster! I got tears in my eyes for her- I never went through it either as my folks still live in their same home. I'm so happy alls well that 'ends' (or really in this case begins) well.
Are you going to come out to the Casual Blogger Convention? You REALLY should!
I totally got used to someone cleaning for me too...now that I am home from Vegas reality is setting back in QUICKLY! Bummer. It felt so good to cuddle with my 2 little ones this morning.
I am glad the transition is going well. While we were gone BIL and SIL moved off the farm. This ended up igniting rumors that our farm was up for sale and that WE are moving. LOL...gotta love small town gossip.
Scariest thing about moving is being the new kid. But so glad she is happy now!
Feeling that you are in the right place is also excellent, we may soon be facing this! You are giving me hope!
I'm glad things turned out ok. I know the first thing I do when my kids have a really really bad time is go shopping. Kass moved here the end of his sophomore year so he could make friends for summer. The friends he made were seniors because of his cousin and they graduated and then left on Missions. The not so good kids are more inclusive so he had those friends his JR year. He didn't date once. He didn't like the girls that hung out with them. Then he transferred to the other school because he had good friends there because of another cousin. Everyone walked up to him saying "So YOU are Kass". He still doesn't know why anyone out of the group should know him. Mik was in 7th grade. She had a harder time but made friends quickly. She just didn't get invited to many things that year. Then she found her best friend in 8th grade and they are still best friends. Plus her boyfriend has liked her for a year and has been waiting all this time for her to turn 16. He is such a cutie. It all works out.
I had tears reading this too. I'm so glad things are going better for Beauty and that the rest of you have adjusted well. I hope you continue to like it there.
You are SO AMAZING! Your strength & how you truly listen & understand your kids. You are such an inspiration to me. Thank you for being my friend! I am so glad I have you & can learn from you...
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